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How to Use the Law of Attraction to Achieve Your Dreams

It's Not Just a Coincidence. It's a Gateway to Obtaining Your Desires.

Child using chalk to draw spaceship on wall to dream big

Have you ever been thinking of someone you haven't seen in a while – then, all of sudden, the phone rings, and there she or he is.


Or have you ever had a deep longing for something to happen in your life – then unexpected events conspire to manifest it in your life?


Many of us write these moments off as coincidences, deja vu, synchronicities, or even more recently, the law of attraction. We say, "oh, it was just a coincidence." We tell ourselves, "no way did my thoughts or intentions influence how my life circumstances."


I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me in my life. Sometimes I think to myself, "did I just do that?" Then I write it off and continue with my day.


Although many of us write these moments off as random coincidences, many of the world's greatest scientists, philosophers, and thinkers will tell you otherwise.


Now you may be saying to yourself, "Yeah, ok, but I am just a regular person."


According to author Deepak Chopra, we are not separate from coincidences that happen in our lives. Instead, he says that we experience them because we intended them.


What does all this mumbo jumbo talk mean? It means that our thoughts and intentions actually influence our lives on the physical plane of life.


In Deepak's book titled The Spontaneous Fulfillment of Desire, he says, "we are the ones who give meaning to events, and we give meaning to events through intention."


He says, "coincidences are simply messages guiding us in ways to act to make our dreams and intentions manifest."

Now I have to say when I first began to study this a couple of years ago, I was speechless. I personally think many of us know this on a deeper level, but when you read it, it almost "awakens" you to gain a clearer sense of how life works.


You may be asking yourself, how will this help me achieve my goals and live a better life?


Well, if you haven't realized it by now, the only way to have coincidences and synchronicities show up in your life is if you have an intention or goal!


You should be asking yourself, do I have an intention for how I want my day to show up for me? Or do I have a clear goal for what I want to accomplish in life? Or even as general as do I know what I want in my life?


And don't just think about it for 2 seconds and move on. Really think and write it down clearly for yourself if you have to.


This may sound simple to some, but I guarantee you if you were to ask someone any of these questions, many of them would look at you confused.


Go ahead, ask the next person you see, "did you have an intention this morning for how your day was going to show up for you today?"


Unfortunately, some of us live in auto-pilot. The day before is the same day as today and the day after. That sounds like the matrix to me. Not a good place to live!


Furthermore, if our intentions or thoughts influence how life shows up for us, then it's a reasonable statement to say you should become clear in your intentions, so your life manifests for you according to your desires.


So, you may be asking yourself, “do my thoughts actually affect my everyday reality?” The answer is a big fat yes.

You are the architect of your life, and coincidences and synchronicities are communication devices that reflect back to you your deepest thoughts or intentions.


Now I'm not just talking spiritual "woo woo" here; this has been proven by quantum physics or, to be specific, the study of quantum entanglement. But I won't discuss that here. So feel free to do your own google search on "thoughts and quantum physics."